When we judge someone, we are seeing them as sinful. We may see differences in judgments with some judgments being "milder," but this is false as ALL judgment is vision that is not of God and does not see the God within.
We judge because we project out our belief that we are sinful --- we are not seeing the God within us. We project out in an unsuccessful attempt to get away from the feeling of being sinful and the belief that God will punish us for that. How do we reverse this?
First, we witness this through our recognition of our judgments. Second, as we have these judgments of others, we look past their words and actions to recognize His Presence within. We call to the Christ within them and ask for their blessing to remember the Christ within us. As we do that, we live in "two are gathered in His name." Remember, judgment will never take you to Heaven. Only Unity will, as we cannot get to Heaven without the recognition that God/Christ/Love is within each of us. This is our true identity.
These posts are similar to the over 2100 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."