I am Therefore I am: September 2017

Describing the path of our Love with God, a path of remembering our Oneness with Him.

Saturday, September 30, 2017

The Reflection

How do we see something? By light reflecting from it. How does God know Himself? By seeing His reflection in you!

You act both as a mirror and a prism as God moves through you.

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Friday, September 29, 2017

Are You Placing Him Above All Else?

When God wants to draw you closer to Him, He often uses something you want as a vehicle to do that. Because you want this particular thing to happen so badly that you temporarily give it your focus and "love" over Him, it cannot happen until you let go of it.
When you can let go of an attachment to something of the world, you can then receive it, because receiving it does not change your relationship with Him.
Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Thursday, September 28, 2017

God Created You By Sharing Himself

When we share, we drastically reduce the power of that which is not real.

If we share our secrets and fears, we see that they are specific to us, not universally held. Illusion is only held together by the power of your belief, and through sharing, you take that belief away.

Only that which is Real can be shared. God created you by sharing Himself, and Creation expands by the sharing of Love and Unity, as well as the sharing of yourself with your creations created out of Love.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Wednesday, September 27, 2017

It Ain't Always Roses

When we say yes to God, this does not mean that everything will be roses. In fact, it is highly likely it won't be.
Each of us has many false layers of beliefs to work through --- false beliefs about who we really are and what our relationship with Him is. Working through these false beliefs can bring up a lot of emotional and spiritual pain as well as physical issues where our body rejuvenates and recreates itself, is born again, to hold more of His Light.
This is a path of remembrance. As we remember who we really are, we feel more of His peace and joy as we work through those layers of false beliefs. When all the false is gone, only Truth/God/Your Real Self remains.
Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Monday, September 25, 2017

What You Want To See ....

What you want to see is what you will see. If you want to see forgiveness and Love, you will see this in the world as God's Kingdom will be reflected back to you in all of its gentleness, wonder, and sparkle.

If you want to see hatred and separation in the world, this is what you will see. The choice is very simple --- you have the power to determine what you see. YOU must take responsibility for what you see instead of projecting what is false on to others and the world.

When you do this as one individualized part of God, you help everyone else to recognize the choice they need to make in how they see the world. We are saviors to each other. Do not think of yourself as anything less for when you do, you think less of God.

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Sunday, September 24, 2017

You Exist Only In The Now

Why do so many spiritual writers talk about the Now or holy moment? Why is this so important?

This is your natural state --- this is not something you experience every once in a while. This is where you have always been, eternally. There is nothing you need to do because you are already there! All you have to do is release that which is false and which prevents you from recognizing your true state --- fear, guilt, and self judgment.

As you go about your day, witness how you are always living in the past or the future. You will be astonished. Witness your thoughts and beliefs and then bring them to the Now, where you have no problems, where only perfection is, where you are fully present with God.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Saturday, September 23, 2017

God Is Your Source

Money is not your Savior, nor is it the root of all evil, but the vast majority of people in Western society treat it one of these ways.

It is a vehicle through which God can bless you, amongst many vehicles. But in order for Him to do this, you can't put it before Him --- you can't make it your God. Nor can you fear it as if it will run out. When you do this, it does run out, because you have created a belief around lack.

Each of us is a powerful manifestor, and what we believe, we create. Remember your Source --- He is your Source, not the vehicles --- the money, the job, the investments --- He blesses you through. The vehicles can and will change, and if you become attached to them and see them as your Source, you may suffer unpleasant consequences.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Friday, September 22, 2017

Don't Live In The Past With Regrets

Never regret something you did in the past. Know that you would have done it different, but don't feel guilty.
What happened was perfection, because there is nothing outside of perfection, and that experience blessed you. It has brought you to the recognition and wisdom you hold now.
Even knowing that you would have done it different does not keep you in the past. You exist in and can stay in the holiness and beauty of the present moment, the Now.
Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Thursday, September 21, 2017

Why Do You Give To Others?

When you give to others, do you do it because you think this meets the expectations of your family or maybe society? Do you think this is what God wants from you? Do you do it because this makes you feel better about yourself, maybe that you are needed. Is there any motive?

If there is any motive, then giving "takes away" from you. You know this state when you don't take care of yourself. You give but there is nothing to replenish. When you give from this place, resentment can build in you. 

When you give simply because you want to, you have an endless supply in which to give. This type of giving is spontaneous and filled with joy. It springs up in you, directly supplied by God, as you are the clear vessel through which He spreads Love. This type of giving is what you like to do, because this is what you were created to do. we create through the giving of what we are --- Love.

As you give from a joy filled center, you are like a fountain with an endless supply of water. The more you give, the more you have to give. The act of giving is what creates more to give. This is G.I.A. --- God In Action. You are Self less, not self full.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

You Don't Have The Full Picture

Most people look at their highest good from an ego standpoint of "good" and "bad" that revolves around their judgments.

For instance, if your car is hit and requires you to go to lengths to get the insurance money and get it fixed, then you consider that a hassle. But what if that person who hit you needed forgiveness? What if the insurance claims person was having a bad day and you said a kind word that made a huge difference for him?

We make judgments from a very limited perspective. We need only to accept that what happens to us is for a purpose, and that purpose is our highest good as well as the highest benefit for the whole, which are the same. Only God knows our highest good.

What we experience may be because we have not been listening and God needs to hit us with a big stick to wake us up --- not His preferred method and not necessary if we will surrender to where He wants to take us --- but we can turn "tragic" situations into blessings. We always have a choice in each situation to drop false beliefs and remember our divinity, and we have a choice as to whether we will be a warrior or a victim.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Monday, September 18, 2017

Your Faith

Your faith is a crystal clear pool of water. When the world "dirties" you, you bathe in this water to be refreshed in Him. As your Love for Him grows, so does this pool of water, until it becomes an ocean of faith.
Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Sunday, September 17, 2017

Changing Past Events

Quantum physics has proven that everything is energy and that time and space don't exist in the way we think they do. Thus there is really not a "past" and a "future." And everything is manifested through thought -- that is how we were created --- we re a Love thought in the Mind of God.

If there is a past experience that bothers you, then think of it differently. Think of how you would like to remember it instead of how you currently do. When you do that, you bring it to the present moment, and in the holy now is where God is. This is where the healing for this experience can occur. 

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Thursday, September 14, 2017

The River of Life

Envision your journey through life as a River of Life that takes you to different scenery (experiences). You can float effortlessly on the River, or it can be a trying experience when you fight the current.

This "River" actually exists and you are part of that flow. Quantum physics has proven that frequency is the foundation of life --- everything is frequency, vibration, resonance, waveforms. So there is a flow of electromagnetic energy from which we are inseparable. It is everywhere and everything --- this is what is meant by God is One, God is All. 

We have established boundaries in this stream to define us. We are each a point of Light, a representation of God in "form", and this can also be defined as our soul which has experiences in many realities. The unique boundary that each of us has established is the vehicle through which God experiences Himself.

Unfortunately, many people want to hold on to false beliefs about not being lovable, about being separate, about being sinful, about being guilty, etc. These beliefs create blockages where the River of Life cannot flow properly. Because there is an attempt to keep these beliefs hidden, they are never exposed to the Light, the God energy, where they can be dissolved and where all healing occurs.
Be willing to witness your beliefs and release them. Be willing to look at a much larger picture and understand how the River of Life gently takes you to what is in your highest good.

As we progress on the path of remembrance back to God, it is a blessing when we understand the path of least resistance on the River. This involves some dead ends where we think we are on the main current but it takes us against the rocks on the side. These are not wasted experiences as we learn what is right for us through contrast, by taking the wrong current. If we learn from the "wrong" experiences, we come to a high path --- the path of no resistance. This is where we have abandoned any pretense of knowing what is best for us and we allow the main current, the God stream, to carry us without any effort on our part.

In fact, after struggling for so long against what IS, we finally recognize that of ourself, we are nothing and that our effort impedes us floating effortlessly. This is called full surrender, and this is the only place you can find His joy and peace.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Wednesday, September 13, 2017

Become A Clear Vessel

Father, help "me" get out of the way so that I can become a clear vessel through which you move and have your Being. Allow me to be your hands, your eyes, your ears, and your mouth so that I may walk the world in your Grace. May your joy and peace and Love be spread with every word I say, with every smile I make, for I see you, and nothing else.

How do we become a clear vessel? We release everything that is false, and then only Truth, only God remains, because that was all there was anyways. What do you need to clear out? what false beliefs do you hold?

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Tuesday, September 12, 2017

Be In This World But Not Of It

What is of this world will pass away. What is of this world will turn to dust. What is of this world can never give meaning to you. You are not of this world. Anything of this world is not eternal. You are eternal.

However, you are meant to be in the world but not of it. Don't say that it is all God's Kingdom and just try to spiritualize everything. It is all God, but God is having an experience of Himself through us in this unique reality, and through that experience, IF we allow it and pay attention to it, we are awakening to our divinity. We are remembering!

This is why we are here. And you are God's hands and feet to help others awaken and to help the world, because we are in the midst of great change and everyone needs to be a teacher to another. As you show others that you stand in your Light and divinity, this helps them to awaken. So be in the world --- take actions and say words that bring this reality more in alignment with God's Kingdom --- while not being of it, not being attached to anything of this world.

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Monday, September 11, 2017

Lay Down Your Swords

It can be difficult to not react or get defensive when someone blames you, especially if you feel the blame is unwarranted.

The ego believes that others are out to get it, that it is a dog eat dog world. This a fundamental pillar of the false belief that we are separate. But Spirit and a consciousness of Unity understands that we are not separate, that we are all in this together, that no one goes to Heaven alone.

When people "attack", they are coming from a wounded or fear perspective. They are asleep to their greater reality in God. If you can see someone's "attack" as a call for Love, and you know that you are Love, then there is no need for you to attack back. You can lay down all your swords, and you can respond back to them with what they ask for, which is Love. This helps both of you to remember God.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Sunday, September 10, 2017

How You Conduct Your Life Here

When Jesus said "with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again," he was not talking about being punished. This is how the body of God and its laws operate.

Because we are One, that which is done by you is done to you. This includes your thoughts, words, and actions.

If you say an unkind word, or cheat, or lie, at some point the same will come back to you. If you treat everyone with respect and say a kind word to everyone you encounter, and you take actions which benefit others, the same will come back to you.

This coming back, like a boomerang, rarely happens immediately and by the same person, so many do not understand the law, because they do not see the correlation. If someone does understand the law, they would realize how important it is to try and be pure in their thoughts, words, and actions.
Faith is built by trusting in the unseen. If it was very evident, then faith would be easy. In order to have trust and faith, we must get out of our linear mind and connect with the Mind of God that flows in and through us. That is difficult for a lot of people, especially a lot of people who have been taught by the world that the our thoughts are our reality and that is all we should trust in. That is, if you can't see it or prove it, then it doesn't exist.

But science and spirituality are now merging, because what has always been known by mystics is now being proven by science. So know that this whole vast other world exists as the true reality to what you "see.". Know that God unconditionally loves you and you are One with Him, that you are part of a much greater reality where separation does not exist and how we conduct our life here is very important. The smallest gestures of kindness create ripples that are far more powerful than you can ever imagine.

 Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Saturday, September 09, 2017

Guilt

Guilt is not of God, for He is Love, compassion, abundance, joy, and peace.

But guilt can provide an important learning tool as it is like an internal compass that tells us when we have strayed from a Unity and one hearted perspective. The problem with the way that the world appears is that those who are two hearted --- those who see themselves as separate from others and believe (falsely) that they can take actions to increase their wealth, hurt others, or "control" Mother Nature, that they can do whatever they want without consequence and without impacting themselves --- they have cut themselves off from their divinity and their internal compass, so they feel no guilt.
Guilt is not good, but it shows us where we need to change things, so it can be blessed as a starting point. Let it make you aware of what you want to change, then CHANGE IT. If you did something that was harmful to another in your actions or words, say you are sorry (if you can) and use that as impetus to not do it again.

Don't punish yourself and stay in the guilt. God is not punishing us and does not want us to stay in guilt, because that is self punishment. God only wants us to learn from our mistakes and hopefully not repeat them. When we learn from our mistakes and we also have compassion on ourselves for those mistakes, we have opened the doors of Heaven and we have come back to Him in our recognition and remembrance, because we never left Him to start.

As you change and evolve in your consciousness, as those around you see how you can forgive and not stay in guilt, how you can have compassion on yourself and them, this helps them to remember. They see the Light in you getting brighter and that awakens the Light in them. Wow, how holy and blessed is that?

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Friday, September 08, 2017

Playing Roles

We are all playing roles for the purpose of learning and coming back to a greater remembrance of our Divinity. Unfortunately, many do not know they are playing roles. They see from a limited perspective and believe their identity is the esteemed lawyer, the forgotten grandmother, the middle child, the homeless person, etc. Our identity is not the role we play but God and Spirit. Thus no role or person is better than another. They are all vehicles for growth.
We all play many roles so that gives us the ability to interact with others in various ways and learn from them as they learn from us. We awaken to the God within them and they do the same. Just like an actor in a play, we can enjoy playing the role and make it appear real within a certain framework WHILE knowing that it is not our true reality.
This is a time when we have to awaken to our true reality or we will live in fear. Because our roles and experiences, the drama and chaos in the world --- these are constantly changing. But what is eternal --- God, Truth, YOU --- is Changeless.
Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Thursday, September 07, 2017

Compassion

Compassion is the foundation of Love. Since God is Love, we must first start with compassion to bring His Kingdom into reality.

This is a time when fear and self judgment are being brought to the surface within each of us to be transmuted and healed. How will you react? Will you take responsibility and face like it a warrior, or will you try to run from it by projecting blame on to others.

Only when you look at your fear and self judgment with great compassion can you then look at another person with the same compassion, not judging or condemning them for their actions or path. Compassion always starts with yourself and then can be projected outward, but you know if you are not being compassionate on yourself if you are having harsh judgments on others. Pull that projection in and feel the self judgment and fear.

We try to hide parts of ourselves that we don't like or want to feel from both ourselves and from God, as if He will punish us if He saw what was in there. But God is IN THERE expressing through us. He already sees us as His perfect and holy Creation, regardless of what we believe to be true. When we try to suppress what is coming up to be healed, when we try to keep it in a dark corner of our psyche, it only gives it more power and control over you. It is like a virus running underneath the surface of a computer that skews everything. And because science has proven that everything is frequency and we are energetic beings, suppressing these false beliefs will greatly affect your health, your mental state, your relationships --- all areas of your life. Holding on to false beliefs will metaphorically and literally kill you.

So ask to be shown what needs to be transmuted and healed, for you and the world. And be WILLING to do what it takes to do that, as that is a different path for each of us. God will completely lead you IF you allow Him.

Can you say that you come from compassion in how you see others, events in the world, etc? If not, how can that recognition show you what it is you are resisting?

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Tuesday, September 05, 2017

Then You Are FREE

Your power comes from not caring what other people think of you. For this is looking outside of yourself for your identity, and your identity can only come from God --- not your parents, not your spouse, your boss, your religious community, etc.

Do you need someone's approval to feel better about yourself? The only approval you need is from yourself and God, and I can assure you that God unconditionally loves and approves of you --- as you are! No changes needed. 

When He created you as part of Himself, part of Herself, there were no changes necessary. And nothing has changed since the moment of your creation. Perfect, holy, without "sin." When you can walk through the world and know your Unity, know that you are perfect as you are, know that others are perfect as they are, know that others are asleep and their perception of you has no bearing on how you see yourself, then you are FREE.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Sunday, September 03, 2017

Acting Like A Victim

Everyone knows people who act like the world owes them something, they get put out if they have to do something, or that everyone else but them is responsible for what happens to them. They blame another person, a leader, a group, a country, etc. Anything to not take a look at themselves and the power that is within them.

These people are very unhappy. but they don't understand that. They believe that acting like a victim brings attention to them, and somehow this equates to happiness. Show them what true joy is. 

True joy comes from knowing and feeling our Oneness with God. Only this relationship can bring joy, because everything else is false. This is why we were created --- to be in a Love and Beloved relationship with our Creator and to experience the immense joy that brings.

Being a warrior versus a victim means you take responsibility for everything that you think, say, and do and how that impacts everyone and everything. Only by being a warrior can you be a clear vessel through which God can help the world. It is easy to act like a victim --- it is very courageous to be a warrior because this requires great self introspection and willingness to look at your false beliefs that do not serve you or the whole.

Don't judge those who want to stay in victimhood. Love them, bless them, and bring your Light to them, which will help them to see their Light and recognize that they don't want to live as a victim.

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Saturday, September 02, 2017

You Can't Control Someone Else's Choices

Why get angry over someone's choices? You can't control or change them, nor would you want to.

When we try to control, we are coming from fear. Respect and Love for Him means honoring the choices others make, even if you think they are foolish, because we are all One.

When someone makes a choice, even if you think it is foolish, you then have the ability to show how God works through you. Do you have a reaction to that foolish choice? What good will this do?

Whether you talk with the person about their choice is something you allow God to guide you in for each situation. But if you do talk with a person, come from His peace and His Love, and respect that this person has the right to make their own choices. And realize that every ripple causes a change in the One, every choice creates opportunities for you and others to make choices --- everything is in flux.

So their choice may force you to make a choice you would prefer not to make, but you have the right to make any choice you want. That is the free Will that God gave to you. So try to take a broad perspective --- see the forest instead of the trees --- when you make choices. Why is this being presented to me? How does God want me to grow from this? How can I affirm my divinity instead of my false ego self? How can I act like a warrior instead of a victim? How can my choice contribute to Unity instead of the false belief in separation?

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

Friday, September 01, 2017

Love Is Exhibited In Many Ways

Love can be exhibited in an infinite number of forms. It can come through an action, or a non action.
Certainly we understand that saying a kind word or telling someone you love them is a way of expressing Love, so this is an action.

But a non action can be as or more powerful. Let's say you have always reacted out of fear, anger, and blame when you discuss a particular subject with your spouse. But the next time you discuss the subject you don't come from this space, or you hold back with blame, then you have created Love through your non action. It was your intention that created this.

Our actions speak much louder than our words and truly show our growth, so not taking action or not saying a certain thing is a major affirmation that you have evolved to a much higher level of understanding and compassion.

Lawrence Doochin
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."

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