Remember that you will always be presented with circumstances, experiences, and relationships that make you feel uncomfortable, especially in the times that we are now. These are meant to help you grow, for you to see what is holding you back in terms of false beliefs about yourself and God. These are gifts that have been brought to you to help you see past appearances. When you are reborn, it is not an easy process. The birth canal squeezes you and sometimes you mve so slowly it seems that you are not making any progress. But you are, and He is with you through every trial, as you are being reborn in Him.