When you open to God and you give from a place of self-less service, the less you will feel as an individual, and the more you will feel a part of Unity. In this God space, everything that you have defined as "you" --- your fears, your weaknesses, even your overall belief system --- becomes less important and less real to you. These things were specific only to you, as they were created from your belief system. Self-less service helps us to expand our perspective to one where we see the boundaries between each of us fade. It is hard to feel self pity or pride or fear or resentment when we feel Unity instead of individuality.