When you want more of something, you give it. That is how the Kingdom of God works. If you want more respect, then give it. More compassion, more joy, then give it. If you want more Love, which no one in their sane mind could deny this desire, then give it. When we give something, we acknowledge that we have it to give. You cannot give Love without already having it to give. You do not lose anything by giving it away. In the Kingdom, you increase it exponentially within yourself and others by giving it away. This applies to the things you want (respect, Love) AS WELL as the things you don't want like disrespect, hatred, etc (although some believe from a very distorted mind that these are the things they do want). We are One, not the appearance of separate bodies which exist in this false world. As you give, you give to your Self, whether that be the things you want or don't want.