Don't try to be like anyone else, including Jesus. He doesn't want you to place burdens or expectations on yourself, ones that in your own mind you will probably never live up to, creating continual self judgment. Be the most compassionate and loving Steve or Jane or David you can be. That will differ for each person as each one has unique experiences and different people that come into their lives. But the one thing every person can do is to release self judgment and have great compassion on themselves.