You are a product of conditioning. You grew up around parents or adults who told you certain things about life, about people, all told through their biases, prejudices, and fears, and you believed these things, because that's what children do. You also grew up in a society that told you certain things, made certain things look glamorous or fun or boring or hideous, worthwhile or non worthwhile, and you believed these things. As an adult, you have choices that you did not have as a child. Will you break free of parental and societal conditioning? Will you break free of limiting beliefs, for God cannot be limited? What happens to you if you do break free? If you no longer hold limiting beliefs, then you will know your Oneness with Him.