Most people are too serious, because they believe this world and everything that happens in it is real, instead of the dream it is. They believe that they must make restitution, by their deeds in this world, to God for their sins. But because it is a dream, God does not see the "sins" that you see. Love looks past. He looks past error to His holy child. This is what is meant by unconditional Love --- Love that has no conditions.