You never hate someone for their "sins" but your own. Since you believe that you are a sin, you project an attack on another body because you believe that you merit attack due to your guilt. If you did not feel guilty, there would be no need for attack, as what purpose would it serve.
When you have no self judgment and know your Unity, you would never attack another, as you understand this is like attacking yourself. Kindness, compassion, and Love is all that you want to express, but turning the other cheek does not mean that you allow someone to attack or berate you. Turning the other cheek means that you turn away, walk away, from what they are doing to you.
These posts are similar to the over 2300 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."