The good news is that everyone has free will. The bad news is that everyone has free will.
Free will is important, because it allows us to make choices to come back to God in our remembrance and recognition. It allows us to choose to align ourselves with His Will, which is why we are here, to become the highest version of ourselves.
But free will also means that we and others can make choices which don't align --- or don't appear to align --- with His Will. If you feel led to say something to someone about their choices, always do it from the greatest Love and compassion.
But recognize that you can't help someone if they don't want to be helped. And if they don't want to to be helped, you have done all you can do until they make a different choice. Even if it is a person close to you, you can't be defiant or upset about the non acceptance of your help. You have to let it go as it is now between that person and God.
Having said that, don't be black and white in your judgment. Recognize that our perspective on another person, even our perspective on what is best for ourselves, is very limited. We are like a tree in the forest, and we think we know what is best for us, but we usually have our noses pressed up against the bark of the tree instead of seeing the 10,000 foot view of the whole forest. So what we think are someone's "bad" choices is relative and is distorted when viewed through the lens of our own belief system.
There are no absolutes in the body of God, and everything is paradoxical. The sooner you can accept that, the sooner you will be at peace.
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