You are exactly where you are supposed to be. How can it be otherwise? Wherever you are, be the best you can be. If you are a mom, be the best mom you can be. If you are a lawyer, be the best lawyer you can be. If you clean toilets, be the best toilet cleaner you can be. These are only roles you are playing. Play the role as if you are in a performance that is opening on Broadway. And don't compare yourself to anyone else in the same role. There is no absolute best --- this is like asking whether a piece of artwork is perfect. So by staying in the present moment and being fully immersed in what you are doing in that moment, be the "best" that YOU can be. If you feel that you are not at that best, then have compassion on yourself and know that you have the very next moment to change how you play that role.